Saturday, February 22, 2020

Eileen Cox: a Guyanese Icon

Eileen Cox – Guyanese Royalty



A few years ago,  I was in Guyana visiting my mother, Eileen Cox. She was  93, a frail, bent old woman, physically a shadow of what she once was, but  mentally still as sharp as a razor. By this time, Mum rarely left her home in Subryanville; indeed, she rarely ever left her bedroom, but sat there all day, near the bedside phone,  because, then as ever, she was still President of the Guyana Consumers Association, and people still turned to her for advice. I lived far away, in Germany, and visited when I could, usually once a year to check on things.

That day she had to go to the bank, and she needed me, or rather, my arm. I helped her out of the taxi and, at a snail’s pace, she hobbled up to the Republic Bank entrance on Water Street, hooked onto my elbow with one arm.

As is usual in the morning, the Republic Bank lobby was packed. People milled about, having pulled a number, and waited to be seated, while those seated waited to be called  to the counter.  But then a whisper went up: It’s Eileen Cox! And the crowd before us parted like the Red Sea, and we made our slow way forward, down a corridor of smiling faces, past calls of “Good morning Miss Cox!” and “Hello Miss Cox!”; past autograph books held out for her to sign --- oh wait, I got carried away there; that didn’t happen. But it really did feel like arriving with some celebrity at the Oscars, walking up the red carpet with my shuffling mother on my arm. Mum was served first, and nobody minded.

And Mum was, in her own way, a celebrity in Guyana. I’m afraid that in my younger years I never really appreciated her; I took her for granted, as young daughters often do. But whenever I returned to Guyana and people realized she was my mother, they never failed to tell me how much she meant to them. How much she helped them. How they listened out for her on the radio, or read her Consumer Advocate columns in the Stabroek News. How they loved her. “She was a phenomenon!”  “An icon!” Taxi drivers who dropped me off at her home would say, “Wait, you’re Eileen Cox’s daughter? I drove her once!”
So yes, I am the daughter of a Guyanese celebrity: the real kind, the deserving kind, the kind who really DID something to deserve her fame and wasn’t just famous for fame's sake. Mum was internationally respected for her consumer activity, invited to Consumer seminars and conferences around the world, from Chile to India to Canada.

She lived a public life, and her accomplishments are well known: starting with her activities in the Public Service Union, in the Credit Union, her advocacy for women's rights, and most of all, as President of the Consumers Association right up to her resignation aged 93. As a public figure she was outspoken and very direct; but she had another side to her, a private side, that others did not see.

It would be true to say that though she was not a Christian in name, she very much embodied true Christian values and ideals. She has always lived a most simple life, never expecting special favours, never living beyond her means. She loved flowers, nature, the fresh air of the sea wall. Up to her very last day, when she could no longer walk, her carer Sego would carry her downstairs so that she could enjoy the evening Atlantic breeze.

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he never wanted more than what she had. She cared about people regardless of race, religion, political affiliation, gender. She was without wile and without guile; a divorcee by choice, she was married to her mission, the well-being of every single person in Guyana.

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t times, when I was a child, I was even jealous because I thought she spent more time helping others than being with me. But in the end it was good for me, because it gave me a sense of independence and adventure, of daring to seek the unconventional. I learned that selflessness, not selfishness, is the  true secret to a fulfilled life.

Which doesn't mean being a doormat.  She taught me that there is strength and dignity in humility, in putting the needs of others before your own,  in caring, in serving. These are the values she lived truly all her life. Though she was not typical for women of her generation, these are all typically female strengths, subtle strengths that tend to go unnoticed and undervalued, crushed by the typically male strengths of domination and aggression. Yet water wears away stone, and women have at all times and all places been the very backbone of society, precisely through those quieter strengths and values. For Mum, these strengths brought results. Men adored, respected, and bowed before her.

I'll end with an anecdote provided by my cousin Mirri's husband, Peter Halder, a story that provides yet another, less serious side to my mother. In Peter's own words:

“Mirri's parents held an Old Year's Night Party every year to celebrate Mirri's birthday but ostensibly to bring the family together for the last day of the year and thereby begin the new year in togetherness. Aunt Eileen attended each Party. She danced with Mirri's father, her brothers, especially the late Ivor, and I had one or two with her.

Imagine my shock when  a popular song was playing, she held out her hand to me for a dance, and during it  she let go of me and began to do The Hustle in grand style. I was at a loss and just stood and watched. "Come on Peter," she said with a smile, " don't tell me a young man like you doesn't know how to do The Hustle."

 Frankly I knew but was too embarrassed to do it, especially the hip to hip bump with  someone I looked up to. She lived her life in such a manner that she was regarded as the Queen of Subryanville.”

Yes: Mum was Guyanese royalty, for it is the heart that really rules. She was a living example of what we all could be to make our nation truly great. To regain our reputation as The Land of Hospitality.

Mum died in her sleep in November 2014. She lives on in the hearts of many.

She was cremated three years ago almost to the day today. RIP, mum!

Saturday, February 01, 2020

The Making of Demerara Gold


Albion Estate: From Field to Factory

This is the former Campbell Plantation, the home of Jock Cambell. For the time being, just a collection of photos taken in November 2012. It's about time I published them!

Staff Living Quarters



 Albion Estate Guest House






Guest House Cook!



This 90-something lady used to work in the fields back in colonial days. She's now retired (of course!) and well looked after by her family.



On the canefields: mechanics repairing a tractor.



The punts.







There are two kinds of canals; drainage and transport. You can see them both here:

 And here:




Transport bus for sugar workers.



Going home; it's been a hard day's night.










On the field:


Punts on their way to the factory:























The Lab:














See also: The Jock Campbell Story